Recently on Friday, June 3, 2022 in Times of India (also other newspaper's) a
news flashed, new trend setter - Sologamy. 24 yrs old Kshama Bindu from Gujarat
getting married to herself (self-love) on June 11, 2022.
Words taken from Times of India related to the news .... It may seem
incredulous, from "feras" to performing traditional rituals and even wearing
vermilion, the wedding will have it all. There will be no groom and no big fat
baraat. This is probably the first self-marriage or sologamy in Gujarat
(probably in India). Kshama Bindu said some might perceive self marriage as
irrelevant, "But what I am actually trying to portray is that women matter". My
Heartly Congratulations to Kshama Bindu.
Is the marriage irrelevant or illegal. The marriage will be new trend setter "Sologamy"
if she will remain self-married to herself till end of her life. In future if
she changed her mind (or by force) and remarry to a men..then will it be offence
or RIGHT given by our Constitution. Such act is good or bad for the Society,
Culture coming future will tell. Kshama Bindu should registered her marriage as
per government rule so in future she will get all government scheme benefit and
has to follow all Judiciary procedure for getting Divorce from herself if she
want to remarry. Setting new trend is easy but carrying it for the whole life is
difficult and that too publicly .
Such self-marriage act will have pros-cons that only coming time will tell us
one-by-one. Will have direct and indirect impact on the Society, Culture,
Judiciary (When RIGHTS given by our Constitution come into forefront). Heard
"No Religion, No Caste" Certificate. In this case Marriage Certificate will be
"Husband and Wife Name - Kshama Bindu".
Four Pillars Of India:
Judiciary, Legislature, Executive and Media (media has already done its part)
should immediately look into this matter and decide whether such marriage is
valid or void. It will be new trend setter if followed by Kshama Bindu if
followed for rest of the life else it can be offence (such act can be dangerous
to Democracy and Cultural ) and NO RIGHT given by our Constitution.
Four Pillars of India should take this matter (Self Marriage) too seriously.
Study pros and cons, track down such Act and give final decision on
Self-Marriage Valid or Void before June 11, 2022 and aired publicly. Last but
not least the above views of mine are not to hurt anyone's sentiment but want to
express by views about future generations who are been affected by many things
like Harass Environment, Fast Growing Technology and other factors.