Marriage:
It seems to be now well established that the institution of marriage did not
exist among the primitive men. At that time man lived like any other animal. He
was so engaged in the satisfaction of his primary needs, hunger, and shelter,
that there was no time or occasion to think of refinement. Sex life was free.
Sex promiscuity was the rule. 1 Marriage is defined differently and by different
entities, based on cultural, religious, and personal factors.
According to Hindu Law:
Marriage, a legally and socially sanctioned union, usually between a man and a
woman, that is regulated by laws, rules, customs, beliefs, and attitudes that
prescribe the rights and duties of the partners and accords status to their
offspring. The universality of marriage within different societies and cultures
is attributed to the many basic social and personal functions for which it
provides structure, such as sexual gratification and regulation, division of
labor between the sexes, economic production and consumption, and satisfaction
of personal needs for affection, status, and companionship.
Marriage as a sacramental union implies that it is sacrosanct. Hindus conceived
of their marriage as a union primarily meant for the performance of religious
and spiritual duties. Such a marriage cannot take place without the performance
of sacred rites and ceremonies, secondly, a sacramental union implies that it is
a permanent union. Marriage is a tie which once tied cannot be untied. This
implies that marriage cannot be dissolved. Thirdly, the sacramental union means
that it is an eternal union; it is valid not merely in this life but in lives to
come.
According to Manu, husband and wife are united to each other not merely in this
life but even after death, in the other world. Its implication has been that
widow remarriage as a rule was not recognized in Hindu law.
Marriage, whether considered as a sacrament or a contract, gives rise to a
status. It confers a status of husband and wife on parties to the marriage, and
a status of legitimacy on the children of the marriage.
Hindus redefined the institution of marriage and idealized it. In this process
they have laid down detailed rules covering practically all aspects of marriage.
While maintain some continuity with the past, the Hindu Marriage Act has
simplified the law of marriages. The Act has also added a chapter on matrimonial
causes.
Hindu Law
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According to Muslim Law:
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Under Mahomedan law, marriage is purely a civil contract. It is essentially an agreement between the parties,
the terms whereof depend on the will of the consenting parties. Like other contracts, it is constituted by:
- A proposal made by or on behalf of one of the parties to the marriage
- An acceptance of the proposal by or on behalf of the other
Such a contract must be accompanied by dower, which is a price paid to the wife for the connubial rights of the husband.
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The marriage under Muslim law is a civil contract and is comparable to a contract of sale:
- Sale is a transfer of property for a price
- In the contract of marriage, the wife is the property, and dower is the price.
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The Arabic word "nikah" (marriage) literally means the union of sexes, and in law, it means marriage. In Muslim law, marriage is the legal process by which:
- Sexual intercourse and procreation
- Legitimation of children between a man and a woman is perfectly lawful and valid
Other Types of Marriage:
Nowadays, as generations change and the world evolves, people are becoming more aware of various aspects of their lives, including their sexuality. It is not just about heterosexual relationships anymore.
- Homosexuality refers to the exclusive or almost exclusive erotic preference for others of the same sex in fantasy and through sexual intimacy.
- Gay desire is the affective experience of same-sex attraction.
- Homosexual behavior occurs when members of the same sex engage in sexual activities.
- Homosexual identity represents the self-designation where one recognizes the primacy of homosexual desire and behavior in their makeup.
- Same-sex marriage refers to the practice of marriage between two men or two women. Legal and social responses vary globally:
- Some celebrate it
- Others criminalize it
The term "homosexuality" refers to the experience of exclusive or almost
exclusive erotic preference for others of the same sex in fantasy and
characteristically through the realization of sexual intimacy with others of the
same sex. It can be conceptualized as desire, behavior, and identity (although
it is not always congruent within one person at the same time, and therefore can
be a source of personal conflict). Gay desire is the affective experience of
same-sex attraction. Homosexual behavior occurs when members of the same sex
engage in sexual activities.
Homosexual identity represents the acceptance of a
self-designation in which one recognizes the primacy of homosexual desire and
behavior in the makeup of oneself. In contrast to homosexual identity,
homosexual orientation reflects the affective experience of an erotic desire
mainly for the same sex that escapes the conscious control and scope of
historical and social construction.
Same-sex marriage, the practice of marriage between two men or between two
women. Although same-sex marriage is governed by law, religion, and custom in
most countries in the world, legal and social responses range from celebration,
on the one hand, to criminalization, on the other.
The word homosexual was considered taboo in Indian society prior to the landmark
judgment passed on 6 September 2018 by the Supreme Court of India. Deciding the
case of NavtejJohar v Union of India3, the Honorable Supreme Court has put an
end to the criminalization of same-sex acts between consenting adults, allowing
the country's LGBT+ community to celebrate a long overdue win after a nearly two
decades lasting fight for recognition legal. After the judgment, the LGBT
community across the country erupted in the jubilant celebration enjoying their
victory against the 200-year-old British-era law that criminalized same-sex
relationship. The significance of this whole judgment can be surmised in the
light of the statement made by Justice Indu Malhotra while reading her 50-page
verdict that "History owes an apology to the members of this community and their
families, for the delay inprovidingredressal for the ignominy and ostracism that
they have suffered through the centuries"
However, this landmark event should not be construed as the culmination of more
than two decades of a legal fight against the draconian law but rather should be
Understood as a beginning of a new era in the fight for LGBT Rights. It would
not be wrong to say that the repealing of the colonial law was merely a tip of
the iceberg and the LGBT community in India has a much larger and bigger
struggle ahead of them. Despite homosexuality been decriminalized, the laws in
India remain hostile and prejudicial towards the LGBT community in several ways.
The reason behind this is that there exists an enormous gap between the
legislative and the judicial development of LGBT laws in India. So essentially
speaking, the same-sex couples now have the legal right to cohabit and conduct
their personal affairs without any fear of persecution but are still denied
equality of treatment in various aspects. Like marriage, India does not allow
same sex marriages; in fact, it does not possess a unified marriage law. None of
the codified marriage law explicitly defines marriage between man and woman;
neither do they prohibit same sex marriage. Still our legal system does not
allow homosexual union and not ready to give them their fundamental right.
Thus, it is imperative to take the conversation forward and talk about the
various laws that continue to discriminate against the LGBT+ persons.
Same Sex Marriages
The project title is "Same Sex Marriage"
Same-sex marriage, also known as gay marriage, is the marriage of two people of
the same sex. There are records of marriage between people of the same sex
dating back to the first century. In the modern era, marriage equality for
same-sex couples was first legally acknowledged in the Netherlands on 1 April
2001, after royal assent was given by Queen Beatrix 4.
As of 2023, marriage between same-sex couples is legally performed and
recognized in 30 countries (nationwide or in some jurisdictions) . In contrast,
34 countries (as of 2021) have definitions of marriage in their constitutions
that prevent marriage between couples of the same sex, most enacted in recent
decades as a preventative measure. Some other countries have constitutionally
mandated Islamic law, which is generally interpreted as prohibiting marriage
between same-sex couples. In six of the former and most of the latter,
homosexuality itself is criminalized.5
The application of marriage law equally to same-sex and opposite-sex couples
(called marriage equality) has varied by jurisdiction, and has come about
through legislative change to marriage law, court rulings based on
constitutional guarantees of equality, recognition that marriage of same-sex
couples is allowed by existing marriage law, and by direct popular vote.
The
recognition of same-sex marriage is considered to be a human right and a civil
right as well as a legal, social, and religious issue. The most prominent
supporters of same-sex marriage are human rights and civil rights organizations
as well as the medical and scientific communities, while the most prominent
opponents are religious fundamentalist groups. Polls consistently show
continually rising support for the recognition of same-sex marriage in all
developed democracies and in some developing democracies.6
- Existence of Homosexuals Relationships in Ancient India
In the temples of Khajuraho there are photographs of women hugging other women
and men erotically showing their genitals to each other. Scholars have generally
explained this as an admission that the people were involved in homosexual
acts.7
Elsewhere, the Ramayana tells the story of a king named Dilip who had two wives.
He died without leaving an heir. The story goes that Lord Shiva appeared in the
dreams of the widowed queens and told them that if they made love, they would
have a child. The queens did as Lord Shiva ordered and one of them became
pregnant. They gave birth to a boy who later became the famous King Bhagirath,
best known for "bringing the river Ganges from heaven to earth".
The Mahabharata has an interesting story about Shikhandini, the transgender
warrior of the time and responsible for the defeat and death of Bhishma.
Shikhandini was the daughter of King Drupada, who raised her as a prince to take
revenge on the Kurus, rulers of Hastinapur. Drupada even married Shikhandini to
a woman. After his wife found out, he rebelled. The day he was saved by divine
intervention that gave Shikhandini masculinity overnight. Since then,
Shikhandini has lived as a hermaphrodite.
During the great turbulence of the milky ocean, according to Mastya Purana, Lord
Vishnu took the form of a beautiful woman, Mohini, to deceive the demons so that
the gods could drink all the amrut (the immortal sap obtained from the
turbulence of the ocean). Meanwhile, Lord Shiva saw Vishnu as Mohini and
immediately fell in love with him. Their union resulted in the birth of a child,
Lord Ayyappa.
In Valmiki Ramayana, it is said that Hanuman, Lord Rama's follower and
companion, saw Rakshasa women kiss and embrace other women
Another scripture, the Narada Purana, contains references to what can be
classified in section 377 as "unnatural offenses." At one point, the Narada
Purana affirms that anyone who releases semen in non-vaginas, in beings without
vulva and uterus ofanimals, is a great sinner and will fall to hell. The Purana
does not condone "unnatural offenses", but the references prove that they were
in practice.
The famous Manusmriti code of laws provides for the punishment of homosexual men
and
women. Manusmriti says that if a girl has sex with another girl, she should be
fined two hundred coins and ten whiplash injuries. But if a mature woman does
lesbian sex on a girl, she should shave her head or cut off two fingers as
punishment. The woman must also be forced to ride a donkey.
In the case of homosexual men, Manusmriti says that the sexual union between two
men leads to the loss of caste. If a man has sex with non-human women or another
man or indulges in anal or oral sex with women, he is punished under the
"Painful Warming Vow".
Ancient Indian texts, inscriptions, and paintings on temple walls, clearly,
don't approve of homosexuality, but the repeated references do acknowledge its
existence in those days.
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Current State of Homosexual Relationships
There are currently 30 countries across the world where same-sex marriage is legal:
- Argentina
- Australia
- Austria
- Belgium
- Brazil
- Canada
- Colombia
- Costa Rica
- Denmark
- Ecuador
- Finland
- France
- Germany
- Iceland
- Ireland
- Luxembourg
- Malta
- Mexico
- The Netherlands
- New Zealand
- Norway
- Portugal
- South Africa
- Spain
- Sweden
- Switzerland
- Taiwan
- The United Kingdom
- The United States of America
- Uruguay
Countries that Legalized Marriage Equality in 2019
- Austria: The Constitutional Court of Austria ruled on December 4, 2017, that denial of marriage equality was discriminatory, legalizing same-sex marriage. Marriage equality took effect January 1, 2019.
- Taiwan: The Taiwan Constitutional Court ruled in 2017 that marriage could not be restricted to opposite-sex couples and gave parliament two years to enact legislation legalizing same-sex marriage. Parliament passed legislation to legalize same-sex marriage, which went into effect May 24, 2019, making Taiwan the first country to enact marriage equality in Asia.
- Ecuador: Legalized after Ecuador's Constitutional Court found on June 12, 2019, that its ban was unconstitutional, marriage equality took effect in Ecuador on July 8, 2019.
Countries that Legalized Marriage Equality in 2020
- Costa Rica: The Supreme Court of Costa Rica ruled in November 2018 in support of the historic January 2018 advisory opinion of the Inter-American Court of Human Rights that marriage equality was consistent with Costa Rica's obligations under the American Convention on Human Rights. The Supreme Court set May 26, 2020, as the deadline for the National Assembly to enact legislation, but it did not meet that deadline, and marriage equality came into effect on that date.
- Switzerland: On December 16, 2020, the Swiss Parliament overwhelmingly passed legislation extending marriage to homosexual couples. A public referendum held in September 2021 overwhelmingly confirmed support for marriage equality by 64%.
Recognition of Same Sex Relationship in India
India does not allow same-sex marriages; in fact, it does not possess a unified marriage law. None of the codified marriage laws explicitly define marriage between a man and a woman; neither do they prohibit same-sex marriage. Still, our legal system does not allow homosexual unions and is not ready to give them their fundamental rights. Somewhere, still, in the eyes of the government, homosexuality is not okay and cannot be "legitimized" and brought into the larger consciousness of society. Therefore, homosexuality is just limited to bedrooms and sexual acts. You can live with your partner but cannot get married.
In the book "Same Sex Love in India: Readings from Literature and History" by Ruth Vanita, she analyzes dozens of marriages and suicides in the past few decades. She said that many marriages could be considered legal as, according to the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, any marriage between two Hindus performed according to the customs in the community of one of the two partners is valid. No license is required to marry. Even most couples have sought the validation of family and community in same-sex marriages.
Many countries have legalized same-sex relationships, but the Republic of India does not talk about homosexual unions. India is still following the pre-colonial period where getting married in the same sex is not legal. In the Manusmriti (ancient legal text), same-sex activity was a criminal offense and there was serious punishment for it.
Fight of Same Sex Couples to Legitimize Their Union
Three petitions were filed last year:
- One of them was by the couple Dr. Kavita Arora, a psychiatrist, and Ankita Khanna, a therapist.
- The second was by Parag Vijay Mehta, an overseas citizen of India cardholder, and Vaibhav Jain, an Indian citizen.
- The third PIL was filed by defense analyst Abhijit Iyer Mitra and three others for the recognition of same-sex marriage under the Hindu Marriage Act.
Seeking Dismissal of these petitions, center told Delhi high court "that a
marriage in India necessarily depend upon age old customs, rituals, practices,
cultural ethos and societal values" and reading down the sec 377 of IPC covering
homosexuality, the Supreme Court had only decriminalized "a particular human
behavior" but "neither intended to, nor did in fact, legitimize the human
conduct in question".
The government also argued that in the judgment of Navtej Singh Johar case "does
not extend the right to privacy to include a fundamental right in the nature of
a right to marry by two individuals of the same gender". The government said
that the court can see the existing rights but can't create a new right. The
government concluded by saying that "any interference in existing laws would
cause complete havoc with the delicate balance of personal laws in the country".
Government said that it will delicate the balance of personal laws where
petitioners merely asked for the recognition of same sex marriage and in fact
the will strengthen the social structure of marriage. Where they just want their
love to be recognized and not because they want institution desperately, the
want basic civil rights and privileges attached to the marriage act.
They have no right on their partner because they are not "blood relative" or
their spouse, they can't travel the world as couple, and they can't set up a
joint bank account because queer couples are not legally recognized and there
are so many hurdles that same sex couples go through.
Petitioners were simply asking the choice of marriage with civil rights attached
to it. In a developing country like India homosexuals are still facing hurdles
for the reorganization of their love decriminalizing the sec 377 is historic but
not sufficient there should be personal laws for homosexuals.
Recent Personal Bill Proposed in the Parliament:
Recently NCP MP SupriyaSule's bill also sought same legal rights to married
LGBTQIA couples that heterosexual couples are entitled to. Another private
member bill was introduced by a DMK MP that talked about providing rights to
members of the LGBTQIA community for a life with dignity.9
The bill introduced by Sule, a parliamentarian from Maharashtra, proposed to
amend the Special Marriage Act, 1954, to solemnize such marriages and fix the
age of marriage at 21 years in case both parties were men and 18 years in case
both were women. It also proposed to replace the words husband and wife with
spouse by amending the various sections of the Act.
In the statement of 'Object and Reasons' of the bill, Sule said lesbian, gay,
bisexual, transgender, queer (questioning), intersex, and agender (LGBTQIA)
individuals still faced "persecution, discrimination and social stigma within
society".
In 2018, the Supreme Court of India had struck down Section 37710 of the Indian
Penal Code that decriminalised homosexuality. Citing another Supreme Court
judgement, Sule said even after the determination of their sexual orientation, "LGBTQIA
individuals are still unable to marry and raise their own families".
Stating that LGBTQIA couples had no access to rights that heterosexual couples
were entitled to upon marriage, such as succession, maintenance and pensions,
etc, she said, "Therefore, it is of the utmost importance to amend the Special
Marriage
Act, 1954, to legalize same-sex marriage, and provide legal recognition to
married LGBTQIA couples.
It will ensure that Article 14 and Article 21 of the Constitution were upheld,
and that LGBTQIA couples were provided the rights they are entitled to, she
said.
Research Methodology
Introduction to the Research
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"LGBT" rights in India have been evolving rapidly in recent years. However, Indian LGBTQ citizens still face social and legal difficulties in society.
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Same-sex marriages are not legally recognized in India. However, a bill for the legalization of same-sex marriage has been introduced in parliament.
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The Indian constitution talks about "ARTICLE – 14" i.e., the right to equality, but still, we are lacking in giving equal rights and recognition to homosexuals.
Research ObjectiveSociety needs to understand that a person belonging to "LGBTQ" is not suffering from any disease or mental illness. It is something natural, and it comes by birth, depending on the hormones and their sexual preferences for the same gender.
Our objective is to find out:
- What does society think about the community?
- Whether they have equal rights and recognition as heterosexuals?
- Is there anything wrong if they get married?
- Does their marriage affect our culture in any aspect?
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Is it affecting their fundamental rights, i.e.,
- Article 14 - Right to equality
- Article 21 - Right to life
All these are related to Same Sex Marriages.
Recommendation And Conclusion 4.1 Recommendation:
Our country should undertake a review of certain provisions of the Constitution,
as well as all legislation and policy, in order to:
- Assess their compatibility with the rights to equality and
non-discrimination as defined under the international instruments to which
it is party and
- Amend, and where necessary, repeal existing laws, regulations and
policies that conflict with the right to equality.
Further, it is very important to educate people about LGBT rights. Human rights
are natural rights which are inalienable, indestructible and are conferred upon
everyone since birth. It is essential that people take note of the fact that
homosexuals are not sick, they are not aliens, and their sexual orientation is
perfectly in tune with the dictate of nature. Although the landmark 2018 court
ruling and 2014 NALSA judgment were a huge leap in the advancement of LGBT+
rights movements in India. But still, the LGBT people in India are not equal and
don't have the same rights as those available to a heterosexual person and they
are still subjected to violence, discrimination in all spheres of life.
Our country should take action to raise public awareness about equality, and to
ensure that all education establishments, including private, religious and
military schools, provide suitable education on equality as a fundamental right.
Such action is particularly necessary in order to modify social and cultural
patterns of conduct and to eliminate prejudices which are based on the idea of
the superiority or inferiority of one group within society in relation to
another.
I further recommend that social scientists understand—and embrace—the diverse
ways that parental status varies across union types. It is impossible to fully
eliminate uncontrolled-variable bias, and we know that same-sex partners who are
parents differ in other important ways from different-sex partners, in
particular in terms of socio-demographic characteristics. Moreover, many
same-sex partners did not have the option of becoming parents because of
barriers to adoption as well as a lack of access to or the prohibitive cost of
reproductive technologies and this unique history shapes their relationship
experiences.
We could also compare parenthood and relationship experiences in geographic
regions that differ on attitudes toward same-sex relationships and families.
Conclusion:
India is the world largest democracy incorporates the minority of homosexuals;
it provides its people right to life, equality and personal liberty and still
does not allow homosexuals to choose their partner for marriage. Homosexual
marriages in several countries have been legalized and now it's time for India
to give homosexuals their right to choose their partner for marriage.
Their union should be recognized with the proper civil rights. Love is love
whether it's between man and woman, man and man, woman or woman. Marriage is a
commitment to that love and they should be provided with this right. Homosexuals
are also human just as heterosexuals then why are they deprived of their right
to get marry to the person they love. Homosexuals do not harm anyone; one's
support or opposition to this is a matter of personal belief and morality, with
which government has no business to interfere with.
Marriage is a sign of commitment and love. If two men or two women want to show
that commitment, how does that destroy or damage the ideals of marriage.
I finally conclude by saying that homosexual marriage is not a criminal offence
and there should be amendments in respect of that. Homosexual relationships are
just pursuit of happiness and sexual desires.
Written By:
- Heena Yadav, BA.LLB, 9th Sem, ALS
- Payal Yadav, BA.LLB, 9th Sem, ALS
End Notes:
- AIR 2018 SC 4321
- Muslim Law S.R. Myneni
- The Indian Penal Code 1860, act no, 45 of 1860, secNon 377
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